The 6 tips to make your child listen to you
What parents who facilitate effective children are doing
This is an article about the basic 6 tips to help your child to be an effective communicator.
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first of all you have to create moments for communication
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when your child brings you It’s you his/her drawing,
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when he is playing,
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when he is a narrating a story on what she did during the day.
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Then you should give time and make silence
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You should make communication with sensations
music, touch. hug, smell
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You should create moments for communication in your life
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your language should not be rejective
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be the model of the communication that you want to have
these are the most important steps have or tips that you should have on your mind and you must take practice in order to take your child to communicate to be an effective communicator
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This way child can see what you are doing and can have the picture in his mind and its body about how we communicate. This way you help your Child to
communicate with his own shelf and what we do in order to have a good communication. What we are doing to be an effective communicator in life as well as an effective person who will be able to follow its road of development, who will have the ability and the stability to fulfill its needs.
Make open questions which is very easy if you have in your mind and use the small words when -what- who- why which can help you to create moments for communications while you pretend that you don’t know anything about What your child is doing .
For communication with sensations you can give a big hug, you make moments with smells, moments with tastes. These are causing the connection in the brain of your love with your Child to be created.
Because communication is connection. Communication is the ability to create connections and this is the way the brain and the person is developing.
The ability to create connections is the ability to grow, to develop to create opportunities, to create new things, to create new Worlds. The ability to create connections is the ability to be a good communicator.
Sο, as a parent it is very important to help your child to develop this abilities, the dexterity, the skills for communication and development. Actually this is exactly what new Era in which we are now is asking for.
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Can you write in the comment area a tip that you use to make your child speak and communicate?