{"id":8112,"date":"2019-02-02T07:10:03","date_gmt":"2019-02-02T04:10:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.anthropocentric.gr\/word\/?p=8112"},"modified":"2019-06-25T09:13:52","modified_gmt":"2019-06-25T06:13:52","slug":"my-child-my-mirror","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/2019\/02\/02\/my-child-my-mirror\/","title":{"rendered":"My child, my mirror"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">My child, my mirror<\/h1>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-8102 aligncenter\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-300x200.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-350x233.jpg 350w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-272x182.jpg 272w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>The importance of mother-child and child father communication and relation is well documented<\/strong> and creator of the child&#8217;s emotional quality, love, self-esteem, gender identity, and perturbations such as perceptual discrepancy of space-time. (Makratzi, 2011,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.kobo.com\/gr\/en\/ebook\/6kl4Aq6asTeg23MejxeITw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Makratzi, 2016<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>The child, who has not yet created his own psychosomatic limits, chuckles in the arms of his parents, sucks, identifies with them and takes all their own feelings for themselves and the surrounding world. <strong>He\/she learns through his own parents,<\/strong> since he has no ability to discern what is his own, and what is foreign is the mirror of parents, mom and dad. Mother dismissive, critical of herself and her sex and for others passes these feelings of rejection and to her child the same father.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The child, in order to create his own inner core<\/strong>, needs to be nurtured in an environment of acceptance, non-critical mood and<a href=\"https:\/\/www.udemy.com\/effective-communication-skills-for-4-6-years-old-children\/?couponCode=COMMUNICATIONMY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> communicative skills<\/a> externally by the parents and internal, ie<a href=\"https:\/\/www.udemy.com\/the-start-method-for-the-reconnection-with-inner-child\/?couponCode=INNERCHILD\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> in a state of inner psycho-emotional communication<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The<a href=\"https:\/\/www.udemy.com\/effective-communication-skills-for-4-6-years-old-children\/?couponCode=COMMUNICATIONMY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> communication skills of the parents,<\/a>&nbsp;(<a href=\"https:\/\/books2read.com\/b\/4jDGKk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">also Makratzi, 2018)<\/a> as well as the non-discouraging behavior for themselves and for others, constitute the foundation stone of creating a child with confidence, love, self-esteem and the creation of a stable identity.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As parents, if we want to help our child,<\/strong> we do not have to change the others or the child itself. All we need to change is ourselves.<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8102 aligncenter\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-300x200.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-350x233.jpg 350w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-272x182.jpg 272w, https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/adorable-baby-blur-1296076-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My child, my mirror The importance of mother-child and child father communication and relation is well documented and creator of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,74,95,75],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8112"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8112"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8112\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8396,"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8112\/revisions\/8396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8112"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8112"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anthropocentric.gr\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8112"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}