You are a single father. You are afraid and anxious about your parenting.
Sometimes people are looking like doing something very strange because you are growing up your children alone.
Society believes about single father parenting are not empowering the single father parenting.
Moreover, man does not have developed the dexterities to look after others because of the norms about who is doing what.
Parenting in our society has been overloaded with many worries. Children need clothes, food medicine, school, activities, toys, and many other things according to the society.
So many thoughts and responsibilities. Is a whole marketing process.
And moreover, the research is giving the results without the consciousness that many people are not mature to think in-depth and out of the context that this research was created. Social media take the research results not for the best of all but for the best of the modern marketing values.
So not only single father parents but all parents are coming in a situation of not being and feeling enough. They feel anxious about their abilities to give everything to their kids.
They feel insecure, they lose their self-confidence about their parenting role.
That’s the worst thing that can a parent have. This insecurity is changing the type of relationship between children and parents. The children have no place in which they can be and fulfill the basic need, the need for safety.
This way they create children which may in difficulties have symptoms of anxiety.
You have to think two times when is about the question if you are a good parent or not.
You are the best father and this feeling is what you have to spread around you.
No matter if you are a single father or a single mother or a whole family.
You are the best. Because this feeling is that you are transmitting to your child. You are the best father, you are the best single father because this is what you are saying with your emotion to your child.
This feeling is the feeling that your child is going to take and make it the piece of itself and to bring it outside to live its own life.
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